Dating a married woman going through a divorce
Psychotherapist Pandora Mac Lean-Hoover, who's divorced, also suggests finding a therapist who knows firsthand how vulnerable you are."Therapists who haven't experienced divorce often create false hope," in regards to recovering quickly.Kira Brown, 34, from Phoenix, AZ, owned a business with her ex-husband and wishes she'd also hired a financial planner for help negotiating her settlement.3. According to financial analyst Sandy Arons, a divorcee herself, 40% of divorce proceedings are about money.
Step one: Thoroughly understand your current cost of living 5. Even with carefully planning out your future expenses, something surprising may pop up.Julie, 50, from Denver, thought she'd be able to handle her divorce."I'm a strong person, I own my own business and I'm a professional speaker," she says."Anything written online about an ex-spouse will exist forever—when the children are old enough to read," cautions Newman.7.
Being divorced doesn't mean you're a failure, less competent or less desirable.Specifically, "learn all of the online passwords to bank accounts, which accounts had automatic payments and where money is invested, including the names of all accounts, the account numbers and the investment advisors," says Newman.