Dating services in new york city
I do try to provide constructive feedback but often it is a matter of a lack of chemistry.When I do introduce a client to the veritable man of her dreams, if her feelings aren't reciprocated (which is the possibility with all dating situations), she is upset with me, the person who introduced her to this "perfect" man.His rejection led her to file a slandered-filled lawsuit based on her assertions that I "forced" a grown man to go on THREE "fake dates" with her.Not only is it a baseless and absurd accusation, it's insulting to both me and the man who dated her.The media seems to relish in painting these so-called victims as baby lambs who were innocently in search of their soul mates and vindictively scorned by "evil matchmakers" they paid boatloads of money to.What is never printed or addressed is the absolute terrorizing trauma these "victims" put their matchmaker through.While I might introduce her to her dream man, she might not be his "dream woman." She truly has no idea what goes on behind the scenes in finding her someone who fits most of her criteria.
It is the most unflattering expression of rejection I have ever witnessed.
Not only am I scolded, attacked and told that I am not doing my job if I introduce her to someone who is not romantically interested in her, I am accused of introducing her to someone who is not serious about a being in a relationship (they ARE serious about being in a relationship, just not with you).
I was recently slapped with a lawsuit, riddled with lies and wrongly slandered and defamed in very public media outlets by such a client.
I was very passionate about the fitness industry...
helping people achieve tangible goals, augmenting their self-esteem through diet and exercise that resulted in an overall improved quality of life.
We have all experienced rejection in our lives, and yeah it hurts, really badly, but to go to the extreme of vilifying both the matchmaker (who was just doing his job, a good one at that) and the man who took her on three lovely dates (including lunch at the Breakers in Palm Beach with his children), is inconceivable and quite frankly pitiful. I moved to NYC with a girlfriend after having sold my successful med-spa and fitness businesses in Philadelphia.